The truth about politicians (and the rest of us)

Politics is about the selling of candidates and public policies. Unfortunately, in the run-up to the November 2012 presidential campaign, both parties have produced so many distortions and half-truths in this campaign that Americans needed independent fact-checkers (FactCheck.org and PolitiFact.com, for example) to vet candidate claims.

This is so unfortunate. But let's be honest. Lying in the public square is a symptom of a larger pattern of deceit in every corner of American life. Consider these facts:

• Forty percent of Americans think it's OK to lie. (Ipsos survey, 2006)
• People lie about 11 times a week, according to Anita Kelly, Ph.D., a psychology professor at the University of Notre Dame.
• America's young people are often dishonest, according to the Josephson Institute. Its Integrity Survey found that 38 percent of young people ages 18 to 24, and 51 percent of those 17 and under, believe they must lie and cheat in order to succeed. 
• Labaton Sucharow (a New York law firm) says that 24 percent of financial professionals believe that unethical or illegal conduct is par for the course.

The mistrust factor

Voters aren't the only people who lose faith when lied to. Your customers — the people you rely on for your livelihood—have zero tolerance for industry falsehoods. When lied to repeatedly, they began to mistrust advisors and companies, disbelieve their recommendations, refuse to buy their products and tear down their reputations. In short, lying to seniors is not only unscrupulous and morally repugnant, it's a death trap for your reputation and practice.