In Wealthy Families, Inheritance Distress Goes Beyond Money

Analysis June 25, 2024 at 03:06 PM
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What You Need To Know

  • Bigger fortunes and more complex family dynamics compound the challenges of estate planning.
  • Sentimental and emotional issues often cause more strife than the actual dollars and cents.
  • Avid collectors should prepare for the possibility that no one wants to inherit their treasured items.
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Inheritances in wealthy families are almost always spoken about as a positive thing for the next generation, but new survey data published by Bank of America Private Bank details some challenging aspects to consider.

For example, 1 in 5 respondents report having experienced emotional strain over an inheritance, including 54% of younger respondents. At the same time, 52% of wealthy Americans do not have the three basic elements of an estate plan — a will, advanced health care directive and durable power of attorney.

Just as concerning, according to Jen Galvagna, the head of trust, estate and tax at Bank of America Private Bank, is that 48% of respondents with a plan in place have not considered hard assets, including real estate, art and collectibles and other tangible assets, in their estate plans.

"The lack of planning is stark," Galvagna said in an interview previewing the survey results. "Even in this wealthy survey demographic where people have over $3 million to invest and manage, roughly half of them don't have a comprehensive plan. You might think that wealthier people would have higher planning prevalence, but they actually don't."

Families with substantial means have always needed planning around inheritance and estate issues, according to Galvagna, but this need might be greater today than ever before. Why? Families at the top of the income distribution control even more wealth at the same time that their structures have grown more complex.

"It is so common now that we see family complexity — blended marriages, kids with differing wants and needs, divorces and more," Galvagna said. "The importance of planning for all these scenarios is critical. If those scenarios aren't considered, and if an estate plan isn't thoughtfully put together, it can create a lot of conflict and emotional strain."

Pitfalls to Avoid

Despite the importance placed on sharing and sustaining family money, gaps in planning, communication and guidance could derail these goals, Galvagna warned.

Beyond the concerning stats already cited, the survey shows that 56% of respondents have established a trust, yet only 27% say they understand trusts and their benefits "very well." Issues such as incorrect asset titling and poorly structured documents are prevalent, Galvagna said.

One positive is that 69% of parents of adult children report having spoken with their children about family wealth plans. They start those conversations only after their children have reached the age of 31, on average.

"It's important to start these conversations early," Galvagna said. "Also, even if you have a great estate plan in place and you're happy with it, you need to revisit it regularly over time and consider how circumstances might have changed."

This work is generally done best in coordination with an experienced advisor and other legal and technical resources, Galvagna said, helping clients set up the plan and its commensurate documents.

"Something that backs this up in the data is that, when an advisor is involved with a high-net-worth family, the client is 20% more likely to have a trust in place to help manage wealth transfers and mitigate taxes," Galvagna said. "These resources can also help ensure your assets are titled correctly and that wealth will truly flow like you expect it to."

Giving and Collectibles

Another theme in the survey data is that high-net-worth clients of all ages feel called to "give with purpose," while many in the younger generation of respondents are "collecting with passion."

Giving back is a near-universal trait among the wealthy, Galvagna noted, with the giving inspired mostly by a sense of responsibility (52%) and a desire to make a lasting positive impact (40%). Where people give and how they pursue other money-related passions, such as owning art and collectibles, varies greatly by generation.

Younger donors are nearly twice as likely to support causes focused on homelessness, social justice and the environment compared to older donors, and while 40% of the wealthy overall either own or are interested in an art collection, this jumps to 83% of millennials and Gen Z.

Other stats show that 65% of all study respondents, including 94% of those younger than 44, are interested in collectibles. Millennials and Gen Z are at least two times more likely than older generations to be collectors of watches (46%), wine or spirits (36%), rare or classic cars (32%), sneakers (30%) and antiques (30%).

Who Wants It?

Galvagna recommends conversations with potential heirs as to what assets they might actually want to inherit.

"It can avoid a lot of stress in some situations," she said. "For example, sometimes there's a family vacation home that only one family member really wants to hold onto, or maybe nobody feels they will use it enough to justify keeping it, and you can plan for that."

This is especially important when it comes to more obscure valuables and niche collectibles, whether that's art, fine spirits or antiques cherished by the older generation.

"We come across these issues all the time with collections," Galvagna said. "It's pretty common to come across a grantor who thinks something they've collected over the years will be desired by the next generation. But sometimes, when it comes down to it, nobody in the family wants it. That's tough emotionally, but it's not your only option."

The key to ensure that everyone is on the same page, Galvagna said, is planning ahead.

"When you have a collection, it's important to ask yourself, where might these assets go? Who might want to inherit them?" Galvagna advised. "We had someone who had a beautiful furniture collection and an antique dining room set that was expected to be left to the kids — but nobody in the younger generation even [has] a home to accommodate that."

Ironically, the next generation often ends up more divided over things that have great sentimental, but not necessarily monetary, value.

"An example I always give is that we had a very high-net-worth family and big estate event some years ago, and this sparked a big fight," Galvagna said. "But they weren't fighting over money. They were fighting over who would get an inexpensive platter with a picture of a turkey on it. It wasn't a valuable heirloom, but it was the family's Thanksgiving platter."

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