How Advisors Can Help Women Adjust to Widowhood

News June 12, 2024 at 03:47 PM
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What You Need To Know

  • Sixty percent of widowed respondents reported that their spouse's death was unexpected.
  • Only 48% of widowed women said they felt prepared to manage their finances after their spouse's death.
  • Eighty percent of women die single, while 80% of men die married, a MarketWatch report suggests.
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More than half of widowed women experienced financial challenges after their spouse's death, according to survey results released Wednesday by Thrivent, a financial services organization. Fifty-one percent of widows either found themselves living paycheck to paycheck or struggling to pay bills.

"Losing a spouse is one of the hardest things anyone can experience," Teresa Powell, a Thrivent financial advisor, said in a statement. "While nothing can protect against the heartache of losing a spouse, creating a financial plan with your spouse ahead of time is one of the greatest acts of love you can do for one another."

The survey found that this is seldom the case. With 60% of widowed respondents reporting that their spouse's death was unexpected, only 29% of all widows said they had created a will with their spouse while they were together. Six percent said they had regularly met with a financial advisor, and 5% had developed a written financial strategy.

Financial professionals clearly have a role to play in helping women adjust to widowhood.

Thrivent conducted an online survey in May among a national sample of 422 widowed women with the aim of understanding the financial preparedness challenges they faced. 

Range of Financial Struggles

Debt is a major financial challenge facing widowed women, according to the survey. Thirty-nine percent of respondents carried some $25,000 in debt immediately following the loss of their spouse, including 10% having more than $100,000 in debt. 

Seven in 10 said losing their spouse made paying off debt moderately or much more difficult, indicating how much they may have relied on their spouse for financial support.

Only 48% of widowed women said they felt prepared to manage their finances after their spouse's death. Seventy percent of these said their main concerns were becoming the sole financial decision maker or paying monthly bills on time. 

Others also struggled with budgeting on a reduced household income, managing and paying debt and continuing to save for retirement on one income.

Some two-thirds of widowed women reported that they had made immediate changes to their financial activity following the death of their spouse. Thirty-five percent reduced or stopped spending on non-essential items or activities, 14% withdrew money from retirement savings to cover expenses and 11% reduced or stopped contributing to savings.

Advisors' Planning and Support

MarketWatch report in 2017 noted that 80% of women die single, while 80% of men die married. It said this dichotomy underscores one of the starkest differences between the male and female retirement experience.

A financial advisor can be an important partner in planning for the unexpected and supporting widowed women as they address their immediate financial needs after the death of a spouse.

A Transamerica report from 2021 includes a list of questions that financial advisors should ask their newly widowed clients, suggested by Heather Ettinger, founder and chief executive of Luma Wealth Advisors:

  • What's weighing most on your mind right now?
  • Who is a trusted close friend or family member to include in meetings to take notes and help you ask questions?
  • What other advisors and financial service providers do you have that I should communicate with? 
  • Do you have enough money in your checking account to cover several months of bills, including funeral and estate expenses?

"For newly widowed clients, it often pays to put off big financial decisions for at least a year," Ettinger said. 

These could include delaying the purchase of a home in a new neighborhood, and instead renting for a year in order to figure out whether the area is a good fit in terms of social support and connections.

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