What the Wealthiest Families Worry About the Most May Surprise You

Analysis June 02, 2023 at 12:09 PM
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In the substantial experience of Paulina Mejia, the newly appointed national fiduciary counsel at Fiduciary Trust International, ultra-high net worth clients are in one important sense not very different from the typical advisor's middle-class or mass affluent clients.

They have more money, to be sure, and this raises a host of added complexities with respect to estate planning, philanthropic giving and tax mitigation that typically won't concern less wealthy clients.

However, at the core of the UHNW client's goal-setting and financial planning process, Mejia says, are the same emotions and psychological motivations that drive essentially any person who seeks out the support of a financial professional.

"They want to know that their wealth is being protected and being put to good use, whatever that means to them," Mejia told ThinkAdvisor in a recent interview. "Especially when children and younger generations enter the picture, these clients want to make sure they are not just passing on wealth but also giving the right values and perspective about life. These are things we all have in common across the income spectrum."

Professionals focused on the UHNW space too often overlook these basics and instead get bogged down in the technical details. "There is a tendency in this space to just get really technical all the time and only talk about tax efficiency and sophisticated investment vehicles," Mejia says. "While the investments and wealth protection issues are crucial, they aren't the foundation of a great advisory relationship."

Rather, as is the case on the lower rungs of the wealth management ladder, the best outcomes for UHNW clients come from the creation of a deeper connection established between the advisor and the client — one that allows the client to more clearly understand and articulate their goals and desires for their wealth.

It is only by setting and regularly revisiting these goals that the more technical side of client service can be best executed, Mejia says.

Family Comes First

As Mejia emphasizes, as with any segment of the advisory market, no two UHNW families are exactly alike. Even when two clients look the same on paper, their lived experiences and expectations for the future can be completely different.

"Not everyone comes from a similar background, and not everyone with significant wealth has earned or inherited their wealth in the same way," Mejia explains.

Still, one "very unifying theme" in this space is that people love their children and care deeply about specific charitable causes, Mejia says.

"They want what is best for their children and grandchildren, but that can mean many different things within the UHNW space," she points out. "In so many cases, the most important part of this conversation isn't about wealth preservation, per se. It's about passing down values just as much as it is about passing down money."

Mejia says the UHNW advisor sits in a powerful mediator position to help facilitate frank but respectful conversations between the generations of a client's family. She says the industry (and its clients) are starting to embrace the importance of having these values-focused conversations earlier and more often — making them the starting point of the planning process, not the ending point.

"These conversations, for the advisor, are a bit of a balancing act, but they can be so beneficial," Mejia says. "As the advisor, you aren't trying to convince anyone about what is the right thing to do with their money. Instead, it's about helping the different generations find that common thread with respect to their values and beliefs about money."

In Mejia's experience, it often makes sense to put the initial focus on the different generations' beliefs about charitable giving, because these beliefs can form a kind of foundation around which some thornier issues can be addressed.

For example, creating a common consensus about the amount of charitable giving that is to be expected can help younger generations understand how much they stand to inherit from their parents or grandparents — and why. It can also present an opportunity for families to discuss their values and find areas of consensus when perspectives differ.

The Estate Tax Picture

Regarding the broader estate planning environment, Mejia agrees with other experts who say that the time to act on the potential sunset of the generous estate tax exemption established by the Tax Cuts and Jobs Act of 2017 is now — not when the expanded exemption expires at the end of 2025.

As Mejia emphasizes, estate planning is a complicated and time-consuming process, and a strategy can take years to fully implement. That's why the firm has already been working closely with clients to utilize legacy and charitable giving strategies that benefit from the current tax framework.

In Mejia's experience, donor-advised funds are becoming a more popular tool among the UHNW client base, but the tried-and-true strategy of creating and maintaining a foundation dedicated to a favorite cause also remains common.

"The decision of which route to go usually depends on how involved the individual and their family wants to be once the gifting is done," Mejia explains. "Generally speaking, donor-advised funds can allow clients to accomplish charitable goals without having to take on the administrative responsibilities that come along with a foundation. Oftentimes, clients can use both strategies in tandem, which can be very powerful."

An Overlooked Tool

One potentially powerful tool that often gets left out of discussions with the wealthiest clients, Mejia says, is the annual estate and gift tax exclusion that is adjusted each year for inflation.

As she explains, gifts at or below a certain annual amount do not count toward the normal lifetime estate exemption. For 2023, the annual exclusion is $17,000 ($34,000 for a married couple) per individual gift recipient, which is up from $16,000 last year.

Mejia says this amount of money may seem relatively insignificant compared with the total value of assets held by the typical UHNW client, but that overlooks the fact that this is an annual limit that applies per recipient. If one gives gifts up to the annual limit every year to a sizable group of beneficiaries, the tax-efficient giving can really start to add up.

One emerging strategy, Mejia adds, is to front-load this giving in certain situations, for example, if they are funding a 529 college savings plan for a grandchild.

"What you can actually do is front-load five years' worth of exempt giving and put that money into a 529 plan for a beneficiary," Mejia explains. "Yes, you may have used up your annual exclusion for that person for the next five years, but think about how powerful this approach could be if you create a 529 account for a newborn grandchild. The gift can compound and really add up by the time the person is ready for college."

(Pictured: Paulina Mejia of Fiduciary Trust International)

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