Centers of Influence.
We basically define them as people who can send business to us. Accountants and lawyers come to mind.
Try a different mindset. Look for the people who can connect you with other people — the ones everyone trusts. There's a story here.
The Established Local
We have a 50ish friend retired from the Air Force. He and his wife are regulars at the local pub. He grew up in the area. He's a nice guy who seems to know everyone.
We needed an arborist (tree guy) for something specialized. Our tree guy recommended someone. We got in touch. The arborist said: "i think we know some of the same people. Do you know (local)?" I said yes. "Does (local) know everyone around here?" The arborist said: "(Local) and I were in kindergarten together!" I called (local). Mentioned the conversation. He said "(the arborist's) dad coached out Little League team."
The moral: Some people, without great wealth or official position, know everyone because they are "nice guys." Perfect for introductions.
(Related: Preparing for the Morning After)