Being outgoing, gregarious and friendly used to be the savvy salesperson's ticket to penetrating new accounts. Today, key decision makers on your target list of prospects already have plenty of friends.
And, given the sheer volume of solicitations that come in on a daily basis, it shouldn't surprise anyone that the next cold call that gets lobbed in the customer's direction has only a very small chance of success.
Some of the reason sellers are experiencing such low hit-rates is self-inflicted, by using traditional catch-phrases like, "I would love to…", or, "I just need a brief moment of your time." Decision makers know you're not just looking for a brief moment of their time. They also assume salespeople have quotas to hit and would really "love" to boost their commissions.
No doubt your intentions are good, as most salespeople are earnestly trying to provide value to their customers. The challenge is separating yourself from the countless other solicitations potential buyers receive on a daily basis, and then causing decision makers to "want to" engage with you.