Take time and prioritize

January 31, 2010 at 07:00 PM
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They say that time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself."
– Andy Warhol

The holidays are behind us and the new decade has begun. Now is a great time to encourage your clients to take stock of the things that are most important to them and advocate a family gathering in order to do so. Why? Because children grow up thinking of family and money as a given. As adults they come to understand how much Mom and Dad sacrificed to give them the opportunities they now appreciate.

A very valuable concept I've learned is that as baby boomers age, they don't feel that they are getting older. In their mind's eye they actually feel younger than their chronological age, compared to previous generations. What does change as they age, however, are the things that are important to them.

The fear of the unknown
For example, seniors may be in their 60s and 70s, but if you ask them, they feel they're in their 50s and 60s. They may see adventure ahead with family or choose to pursue a hobby or continued education. Clearly age doesn't matter! The shift in priorities over time is what truly matters.

That is until the unexpected happens, such as a stock market crisis or health scare or worse. Then, the fear of the unknown grips every waking moment and life becomes a relentless pursuit of peace of mind and assessing what one's legacy is.

While your clients are still in good health and recovering from the fiscal reality we've just faced, let me suggest that you consider taking time out with your clients to determine what's most important to them, no matter their age. Perhaps sharing with their adult children their financial and health plans for the future will top the list.

Build their legacy
Two things will happen if you create a comfortable environment for clients to speak about their legacy and then help them organize it into an agenda to help them communicate it to loved ones:

  • First, they will begin to see for themselves where the financial gaps are between what they say they want and what they have in place.
  • Second, you become the person your clients depend on to remind them to slow down and prioritize their lives. They will thank you for it.
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