The essential issues for grownchildren to raise with their elder parents:
1. What legacy would you like to leave to our family? To the larger community? Have you written down your wishes? Would you like me to help you make an ethical will to share your principles and aspirations?
2. Have you planned how to manage and transfer your assets to the beneficiaries you've chosen?
3. Do you have a will? How recent is it? Is it still valid? Where can it be found? Who is the executor?